In a mixie jar add the coconut and add 1 cup warm water to this.
Grind this into a smooth paste.
Filter this.
Extract 1 cup of thick coconut milk. We call this is onnam paal, the first milk.
Grind the same coconut again with 1 cup of warm water.
Filter this.
Extract 1 cup of thin coconut milk, rendam paal.
In a sauce pan add the jaggery and add ¼ cup of water.
Boil this and melt the jaggery.
Filter the impurities.
Add this back to the sauce pan.
Add the second coconut milk.
Boil this for 3 minutes.
Add the thick coconut milk now.
Do not boil after adding this thick milk, it will get curdled.
Add the cardamom powder to this.
Mix well.
Switch off in 2 minutes.
Roast cashew nuts in ghee .
Add this to the payasam.
Mix well.
Aadi paal | Thengai paal payasam is ready.